容易失礼的18句话及对策(上)

<正> What Not to Say AboutSomeone's Appearance外表慎言Don’t say:"You look tired."Why:It implies she doesn’t lookgood.Instead say:"Is everything OK?"We often blurt the"tired"commentwhen we get the sense that theother person feels out of sorts.Sojust ask.不宜:"你看起来很疲倦。"原因:这暗示她气色不好。适宜:"一切还好吗?"我们觉察到别人精神不好的时候,经常会脱口而出"疲倦"的评价。还是直接问吧。