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One of the most important questions you can ever ask yourself is, "Do I want to be 'right'- or do I want to be happy? "Many times, the two are mutually exclusive (互相排斥的)! Being right, defending our positions, takes an enormous amount of mental energy and often alienates (疏远) us from the people in our lives. Needing to be right-or needing someone else to be wrong-encourages others to become defensive, and puts pressure on us to keep defending. Yet, many of us (me too, at

Let Others Be "Right" Most of the Time