独生子女大学生自我调控方法

独生子女大学生在高校大学生中的比例越来越高。面对新环境、新伙伴,怎样突破迷茫,摆脱孤独,跳出盲从,确定人生目标,尽快适应大学新环境,学会自律自控,是独生子女大学生急待解决的新问题。也是高校思想政治工作的新视点。首先,要指导他们确立人生目标,坚定理想信念。其次,要帮助他们正确认识自己,提高自己的"情商"。第三,要指出应该冲破的两个误区:彼此戒备和强行依赖。第四,努力做到:内强素质,外树形象;与人为善,乐于助人;真诚交往,宽以待人;虚心学习,寻找互补。

The Methods of Self-control for Only-child College Students

The rate of only-child college students is becoming higher and higher in the colleges.The urgent problems of only-child college students waiting to be solved are as follows: facing new environment and new partners,how to break through confusion,get rid of loneliness,shake off following blindly,establish the goals in their lifetime,adapt to the new environment at college as quickly as possible.All these also are new horizons of ideological and political works in the colleges.Firstly,guide them to establish their life values and confirm their beliefs.Secondly,help them identify themselves correctly and improve the EQ.Thirdly,indicate two misunderstandings that they should break through,namely guard each other and compulsorily depend on each other.Fourthly,try to do the followings: intensifing inner quality,forming outer appearance;be kind to others,be happy to help others;communicating sincerely,treating others generously;learning from each other modestly,looking for complementary.